Nov 19, 2011

Let's Explore this Status Known as 'SINGLE' (Advantages and Disadvantges)

We all know that the status known as “Single” is the state of standing alone. For some, the definition of 'single' could be a depressing thought. If you're single, admit it.. You're sometimes in the peak of loneliness that you're longing for companionship, especially during one particular anti-single holiday appropriately nicknamed “V-day”, individuals desire relationship status. Though true for some, many singles embrace their single-hood.

Advantages of being single

  • You can do whatever you want.  (No questions asked. No guilt about doing it either. You don’t have to make excuses. You don’t have to call your boyfriend/girlfriend to ask in on his/her permission to go somewhere)
  • You can have a lot of fun.
  • You can have fun and spend time with your friends.
  • You can really focus on your career, education, and goals in life
  • You have time to improve yourself and become a better person.
  • You are free. (You don’t have anything holding you down or back)

Disadvantages of being single
  • You won't have any one to say "I love you"
  •  You won't have anyone to do your work when u r not well
  •  You won't have anyone to hug when u r scared.
  •  Jealousy (You get jealous when you see your friends or other people together with their bf/gf, doing lovey dovey things while you’re all alone.)
  •  You want to give and feel loved (Not from your friends or family but from that one special person. All you can think about is making that one person happy in life.)

Don't be sad if you don't have special someone. Just always remember that happiness comes within yourself. Only you are ultimately responsible for your own happiness! Don’t depend on someone else for your happiness -- that is no way to live. Love comes when you least expect it! Just wait patiently.. =)

Nov 12, 2011

Between the Miles by: Hearther Stoop

Sometimes life is hard to bear, when a friend is not there.. =)

Because existence can become severe
in one day,
just sense me and I'll be there.
In the minds eye,
I'm not so far away.
If you hold out your hand,
in the whispers,
I'll become the zephyr.
and besiege you.
If your eye's upon the stars,
in the crystalline darkness,
I'll become the moon.
And the light shall guide you.
If you rest upon the ground,
in the warmth,
I'll become the grass.
And embrace you.
If you turn outside,
in the wetness,
I'll become the rain.
An upon your forehead, kiss you.
If you free the air,
in the light of day,
I'll become the sun.
And smile for you.

Between the miles-
if you need me.
If you need a friend.
Let me be the friend, I want to be..

Nov 5, 2011

Makakaya ko ba?

  • Makakaya ko bang hindi ka na itext pa?
  • Makakaya ko bang hindi ka na isipin sa araw araw?
  • Makakaya ko bang huwag ng tingnan pa ang facebook account mo?
  • Makakaya ko bang makita ka na may kasama ng iba?
  • Makakaya ko bang malaman na friends na lang tayo?
  • Makakaya ko bang malaman na siya na ang mahal mo?
  • Makakaya ko bang tanggapin na hindi tayo para sa isa't isa?
  • Makakaya ko bang hindi ka na mahalin pa?
Sa ngayon,hindi ko pa masasabi na kaya ko na..pero alam ko na sa paglipas ng mga araw at  sa pagdating ng tamang panahon, masasabi ko na kaya ko na.. Time is a great healer, and acceptance is all I need..

Lumalalim na ang Gabi..

Lamalalim na ang gabi at hindi ako makatulog. Dahil diyan, magbablog ako.
Magkukwento ako.. haha :))

Tapos na ang first two days ng pasok namin para sa huling semester.

Ano ang mga ginawa namin sa school?
As usual, late na naman pumasok ang mga profs namin. Pasahan ng classcard at reg form. Ayun. Parang wala naman magandang nangyari. haha. Akala ko extended ang sembreak. Sinabi lang sa'min yung mga requirements namin at kung pano ang grading sytem. Yung iba prof namin medyo boring, pero feelin ko mababait naman sila. (Sana nga)

Last Friday, nagpunta kami ng mga classmates ko sa SM Manila to watch a movie. maaga kasi uwian namin, first time mangyayari hanggang 10am lang kami, two subjects lang kami. haha. (syempre sa sine 27, sa P27 makakanood kna ng isang old movie sa SM Manila. Patok na patok to sa mga college students nag aaral man sa private or publc university) Ang movie ay ''MESSENGER'' sa title pa lang, akala naman action movie. haha. So pagpasok namin ng sinehan, nabiktima kami! Horror movie pala! haha! Suki na kami ng mga horror movies sa SM Manila! Nag umpisa ng magtilian ang mga manonood. Ang movie ay ''The Messenger. Scarecrow 2''. haha. Grabe ang tilian parang wala ng bukas! Katabi ko ang aking best buddy na si Majo! Sobrang lakas pa naman nun tumili! haha! Kaloka! hindi ko na maikukwento sa'yo yung movie, dati ng palabas to, panoorin mo na lang. haha. So after ng movie, ayun uwi na.. palingon lingon ako, baka kasi makita ko yung soulmate ko, I mean yung crush ko nag aaral sa MAPUA. cute yun eh.. Twice ko pa lang siya nakikita. So pano ba yan? Inaantok na ko? ikaw inaantok ka na ba?? haha. bukas na lang ulit. Salamat sa pagbisita sa aking site. Gudnyt! :))

Sana Magkaroon Din Ako..

Sana magkaroon din ako.. Hindi ito materyal na bagay..

Sana magkaroon din ako ng boyfriend na:
  • God fearing
  • Laging nag-eeffort para lang maramdaman mong mahal ka niya
  • Mataas ang respect sa'yo
  • Mamahalin ka ng tapat
  • Ipapakilala ka sa family at sa mga friends nya
  • Laging may time para sa iyo
  • Hindi lang basta boyfriend kundi bestfriend rin
  • Laging nandyan para sa'yo
  • Mamahalin at tatanggapin ka kung sino at kung ano ka
  • Lagi kang ineencourage
  • Maalaga
Makakahanap pa kaya ako ng ganitong klaseng boyfriend? or masyado lang akong idealistic?? Haha. Sabi nga nila, don't rush in life. Hindi naman ako nagmamadali, I know he will come at the right time. In God's perfect time. Sa ngayon focus muna ako sa studies. hehe. Kailangan ng magsipag kasi graduating na.
Ginagahan akong  magblog tonight. :))

Hindi ko na Alam..

Magandang gabi sa lahat. Ngayon na lang ulit ako nakapagblog.

Gulong-gulo na talaga isip ko eh. Alam mo yun?? Yung tipong gusto mo pa ring maghold on kahit hindi ka na nya mahal. Gusto ko ng magmove on. Pero pano ba??

Sa araw-araw paggising sa umaga siya lagi yung unang taong naaalala ko. Ang hirap. Nasanay na ko na lagi siyang tinetext, ngayon HINDI KO ALAM KUNG PANO.. PANO SIYA KALIMUTAN. Sabi nila there's no such thing as forgetting only acceptance. O'nga naman, pero sa sitwasyon ko, mahirap tanggapin.

Sana dumating na ang araw na nakamove on na ko, yung tipong kahit na malaman ko na may iba na siyang mahal, hindi ako masasakatan, makakaya ko na siyang hindi itext, at hindi ko na siya maiisip lagi. Wala akong pinagsisisihan dahil ginawa ko lahat ang makakaya ko just to show my love for him. May mga tao pa lang ganun. Sa una lang mabait, pero pag matagal na, masama na sa'yo. Alam ko hindi pa ito ang huli dahil nagsisimula pa lang ulit ako. Kung hindi pa darating ang araw na nakamove on na ko, sana hindi ganun katagal, at sana habang tumatagal matutunann kong tanggapin ang lahat. Balang araw magmamahal ulit ako, at sisiguraduhin ko na iyon na si MR. RIGHT. Ang dami kong natutunan, and all the lessons that I've learned made me a better person. PRAY, PRAY, and PRAY.. TOMORROW IS ANOTHER DAY.. :))